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Such a lovely post, Prue!

I value solitude, too. There are things I much prefer to do alone, including going for my long walks. Sometimes I pass pairs or groups of people chatting away - and that's great, if that's one's thing, but I much prefer to be alone to listen both to the world around me and to the copious stuff that's in my head - thoughts, words, ideas, plans....!

I'm really pleased to hear how your latest book is going - that's brilliant! And your embroidery project is wonderful. Do you know the work of Kaffe Fassett? I'm sure you do - beautiful graphic designs which are both complex and simple at the same time. Tumbling blocks and layered diamonds and all sorts of gorgeous things.

Thank you for such gorgeous links, and for including my newsletter amongst them. So kind! 😊

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Beautiful post. I love my alone time too. I loved it as a child as well. I wonder if it’s innate and those kids who knew how to play well by themselves, probably creating worlds out of shoes boxes, grew up to be writers.

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"A world that spins uber fast with surround sound – an exhausting world." I couldn't agree more! Which is why I find quiet time with just myself to be so enjoyable. In my younger days I was a social butterfly, but growing older has changed that. I find contemplation more satisfying than discussion.

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May 30, 2023·edited May 30, 2023Liked by prue batten

I read something recently along the lines of: "Why are all the articles about how to make introverts more extroverted? Why don't we teach the extroverts how to keep to their own damn selves every now and again?" Made me laugh. I totally relate to the need for solitude! Thanks for this piece, Prue, and for the humbling shoutout as well. So generous of you. And, a happy add on: Rebecca Holden and I are now connected. Substack fist bumps all around! :)

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You have written my feelings on so many levels, Prue. Thank you. And I LOVE the bag—this inspires me. Plus, this song. I have immediately added it to my favourites. Absolutely gorgeous.

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